erindulge because they want their children to have everything they had while growing up，along with those things the parents yearned for but did't get.
along with sth./sb.：除此之外；同样；一起
eg：They got financial aid，along with encouragement.他们得到了资助，也得到了鼓
励。
eg：He，along with his best friends，went to the party
9.Overindulgence of a child also happens when parents are unable to stand up to their children's unreasonable demands
stand up to 后面一般跟sb.，表示顶住某人要求等
eg：If you stand up to them，they will stop troubling you. 你要是顶住，他们就不会再麻烦你了。
stand up to sth：（物质或物品）耐磨，耐用
In 1998，the dam stood up to the severest flood in history.1998年，那个大坝经受了历史上最严重的洪水的考验
10.Such parents vacillate between saying no and giving in——but neither response seems satisfactory to them
vacillate between：（正式）犹疑
eg：She vacillated between her two admirers. 在两个追求者之间，她举棋不定。
